Sooooo a few months back my work got new owners and before that I was one of the only cooks left at the café I work at so I was getting lots of hrs and was too tired to rp and stuff cause my brain didn’t want to work Hahaha, anywho since the new owners have taken over my hrs have dropped some which means I can be on here more, but they are also causing my anxiety to go haywire which means I can’t focus on here.
So I’ve been doing some things on here but not a lot because of the problems with anxiety. Mostly I have been playing games to try and calm my brain down. I am trying my hardest to get on here and focus so.i can do the many drafts I have.
I am very sorry for my lack of activity on here lately.
your partner still loves you even when they are away.
your friends still loves you even when they are away.
they will sill love you even if they have other friends.
they weill still love you even if you are not okay.
they will still love you even if they don’t reply immediately.
they will still love you even if you don’t reply them immediately.
they will still love you even if they can’t talk in a exact moment.
they will still love you even they are not around you 24/7.
they will still love you even if you don’t love some things about yourself.
“they are not replying!”
MAYBE
they fell asleep.
they are busy.
they don’t feel okay to talk right now.
they had to immediately leave for some reason.
they are studying.
they are working.
they are practicing a hobby.
they forgot to reply by distraction.
THEY STILL LOVE YOU.
“they are distant!”
MAYBE
they are going through a hard time.
they are hurt by something you said or did (don’t get paranoid because of it, try to talk to them).
they are very busy with work or studies.
they are planning something good for you.
THEY STILL LOVE YOU.
“i made a mistake and hurt them.” you can always apologize! everyone makes mistakes.
“they made a mistake and hurt me.” tell your feelings to them.
“they will leave me, i know it.” check if it’s not your paranoid thoughts acting out and tell your feelings to them, we can’t be 100% sure if someone will abandon us.
“they have someone better in their lives.” i personally don’t believe in “someone better”, because we all have good and bad aspects, but it doesn’t even matter if they have someone better, because they are with you because they like you and not because of someone else or whatever.
“i’m not enough.” YOU ARE ENOUGH FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.
“i’m ugly.” YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.
– Everything I said relates to healthy relationships only. I don’t support abusive relationships and please take care of yourself and look for help if you are being abused.